Hello! Miss Lopez here! First of all I must say I love gentleman manners… Well, today I´ve a discussion at Stockholm´s University about how the Swedish society has become very unisex and men in general are not gentleman anymore. Too bad for me… It may sound funny but I do think it´s very important men have gentleman manners. Why not? After all we women deserve all the best, don´t you think so? ´Cause we worth it. And you know what “lo cortes no quita lo valiente” that means in Spanish something like being polite does not make you less brave or something… and I agree!

And here comes some tips that I´ve found in Hola  magazine  for you guys/men wanting to be the perfect gentleman in a romantic date…Follow these tips & feelgood!

 

The simplier the better!  A date for coffee can be much easier than for a romantic dinner by candlelight …. The level of commitment at this point is still very delicate, so before you jump into the pool, take it easy!

What should I wear? You´d better keep a look as relaxed as possible: simple jeans and a shirt can work perfectly. Cool!

Once the starting point, the route of the date can vary: if things go well, coffee may come over for a walk and then to dinner. By the way, have prepared a list of places to go to have a mind, a park, an Italian restaurant and cocktail bar nearby… Just be coool! Not cold!

Stay relaxed and be yourself and remmember smiling is the key attraction.

One of the major errors in the first few dates is narrating the entire list of qualities that we consider the  ’whole game’: the tendency to impress is natural, but sometimes it can degenerate into an excess of confidence in ourselves. If this happen try to avoid it and redirect the conversion to another topic.

Become the perfect gentleman in her eyes is also about the little things:  waiting  for her first to sit at the table, open the door of the restaurant, show that you care… This is not to be treated like a princess, but almost …

well I hope you like the tips for gentlemen I´ve found. Let me know!

Viva gentlemen and gentleman manners! For a better society with more undertanding betwen men & women!

BE COOL not cold! and FEELGOOD  WOMANHOOD for ever!